RUMAH & TANGGA

What do we call it in english? Family matters? Whattever la. Things about you & your wife, or you & your husband (if you are female).

Last night I have lite-drinks with sum freinds. Errr... quite heavy drinks coz addtional food is Ikan Bakar hehe... Burn Fish? hahahahaha... So quite many issue raised. And come to climax :) ... there is a sad story about one of our friend who have problem with his wife... kisah rumahtangga la ni. Dono where goes wrong ( I don't wanna dig), suddently his wife decide to scram & go back to her mothers house. Sad, sooooo SAD. Because I'm quite closed to both of them. So, what to do huh?

Ok, its not that... or how to say it, biasalah tuh. Semua org pon hadapi masalah rumahtangga. Just name it Husband & Wife, sure 1 day or 2 or more... you sure tergigit lidah punya. Tak boleh lari dude... gua cakap lu. It just that, its up to the Leader how to steer the kapal / ship. In this case the husband la. Rumahtangga u, u yg bawak ke tengah or ke tepi, ke atas or down karam-singh-walia. All-in-one package in husband hand. Betul tak?

Masalah rumahtangga jgn bwk 'keluar'. Your problems with yr wife is yr solely your problem with your wife. No escapetism. No fear. No remose. No repend.... hehehehe gua hantam je ni. Tapi gitu lah gamok nye. Mcm la gua tak penah hadapi masalah rumahtangga. And now I'm telling you guys that I am married, with 4 kidos alledi ;)

Tapi hikmahnye terletak di tangan suami yg 'memandu' bahtera rumahtangga tersebut.

Mengalah bukan bererti KALAH. Berperinsip tegas bukan bererti MENANG. If we husband decide that nak control EGO je.... there you go... Clash of The Titans will take place, caya lah cakap gua.

Go & get your wife man! PLEASEEEEE.... for at lease think about your new born baby. Kesian budak tu. And I tell you, if this time you make a wrong step, you will regret your whole life. WHOLE LIFE god dammit! Pleaseeee... be a wiser man. Long gone your hurray-hurray days. This is the era for you & your family, I mean You, Your Wife & Your New Born Baby.

I hope you got what I'm trying to tell you. I pray for you man...