she found me :)

She finally found my blog.

Actually shes been asking me quite sumtimes already... "Mana blog abang?". I just keep quite. Open new topic. Or just walk away... hehehe. I just don't feel comfortable to allow my wife to read my blog. Malu siol!

But one nite when I'm reading comments on Kickdefella, she excidently trace my blog's address. Coz theres a preset ID, web address, info etc at comment box. "Tu address apa tuh?" my wife asked me. I just smile & said nothing. Maybe she got a catch.

Later when she took over my laptop & read a few blog, I saw shes smiling. I go & look. Shes reading my APAPAJELAH blog.... kwang kwang kwang!!!!!... And she start commenting this & that. "Pandai abg menulis...." said wife. Me said "Hantamanasuka je" hehehe...

Dear wife, welcome to my blog. This is nothing place. Just absolutely APAPAJELAH. Nothing less, nothing more. I don't take personal. Just don't dig down too much. Read whaever you like. Do your own blog if you wish, but I guess you are too busy with our kids. Sumore our broadband connection wasn't that good back at our place. GPRS, what do you expect!

Wife, thank you for everything. You are my world. You've been sacrifice MUCH in our living. Nothing I can pay you, but love. Ya true, love can't be eat, but at least there was a thing that I can offer. Sorry, I can't shower you with gold & diamonds. I can't give you wealthiness. Trough out all these years we've been living in a small hut. No much space for our kids. No much toys for them to play with. But I guess if we need to redha dgn ketentuan ALLAH. Hopefully we are among hamba-hamba ALLAH yg bersyukur, Insyaallah.

Wife, I LOVE YOU.

RUMAH & TANGGA

What do we call it in english? Family matters? Whattever la. Things about you & your wife, or you & your husband (if you are female).

Last night I have lite-drinks with sum freinds. Errr... quite heavy drinks coz addtional food is Ikan Bakar hehe... Burn Fish? hahahahaha... So quite many issue raised. And come to climax :) ... there is a sad story about one of our friend who have problem with his wife... kisah rumahtangga la ni. Dono where goes wrong ( I don't wanna dig), suddently his wife decide to scram & go back to her mothers house. Sad, sooooo SAD. Because I'm quite closed to both of them. So, what to do huh?

Ok, its not that... or how to say it, biasalah tuh. Semua org pon hadapi masalah rumahtangga. Just name it Husband & Wife, sure 1 day or 2 or more... you sure tergigit lidah punya. Tak boleh lari dude... gua cakap lu. It just that, its up to the Leader how to steer the kapal / ship. In this case the husband la. Rumahtangga u, u yg bawak ke tengah or ke tepi, ke atas or down karam-singh-walia. All-in-one package in husband hand. Betul tak?

Masalah rumahtangga jgn bwk 'keluar'. Your problems with yr wife is yr solely your problem with your wife. No escapetism. No fear. No remose. No repend.... hehehehe gua hantam je ni. Tapi gitu lah gamok nye. Mcm la gua tak penah hadapi masalah rumahtangga. And now I'm telling you guys that I am married, with 4 kidos alledi ;)

Tapi hikmahnye terletak di tangan suami yg 'memandu' bahtera rumahtangga tersebut.

Mengalah bukan bererti KALAH. Berperinsip tegas bukan bererti MENANG. If we husband decide that nak control EGO je.... there you go... Clash of The Titans will take place, caya lah cakap gua.

Go & get your wife man! PLEASEEEEE.... for at lease think about your new born baby. Kesian budak tu. And I tell you, if this time you make a wrong step, you will regret your whole life. WHOLE LIFE god dammit! Pleaseeee... be a wiser man. Long gone your hurray-hurray days. This is the era for you & your family, I mean You, Your Wife & Your New Born Baby.

I hope you got what I'm trying to tell you. I pray for you man...